The Life of Karen:

Date Night

Stian Løkling Pedersen

Stian Løkling Pedersen

CEO & Founder

Feb 5, 2025

Karen steps out of the car and struts towards the restaurant. Click-click. Click-clack. The sound of her heels reverberates through the car park with a menace that seems to grow step by step.

Karen’s upset already. She’s had a rough morning, a client was late for a meeting, and her beloved Chihuahua, Coco, spilt coffee all over her favorite tablecloth. “Probably Kenneths’s fault,” she thinks. Her much-maligned husband had been winding her up all day. 

Anyway, it’s date night. “Breathe, Karen,” she says to herself. “You deserve a nice evening.”

The waitress smiles and points Karen and Kenneth in the direction of a corner table. Nice table, private but still close enough to the action to feel the ambiance. 

Karen sits down, and even as she starts to feel herself slowly decompress, she can’t quite shake that itch of annoyance. Something just isn’t right. Kenneth mumbles something at her, and immediately she realizes.

The music is just way too loud

And all the frustrations of the day come crashing down on Karen like a raging tidal wave of disappointment. The meeting, the dog, clueless Kenneth, and now this.

As the frustration bubbles up inside her, her phone appears in her hand almost by itself. Oh yes, Karen has played this game before. Everyone is going to hear about this, she thinks. No wonder Becky warned her against coming here. Just wait until Stacey hears the gossip. Karen sighs, and types those four fateful letters into Google.

Y. E. L. P.

The Turning Point
 

I think we all know where this is headed. Yep, you guessed it, a one-way ticket to 1-star Yelp city. But what if we could turn that train around? Hang with me for a second:

Karen starts typing: Y…E… then she spots something on the table, is that one of those QR things Becky told her about? “Take 20 seconds to let us know what you think and win a free dessert!”

She grins. “I can let these guys know how much they’re ruining date night and get a Crème Brûlée on the house?” 

Karen, curious now and feeling a twinge of excitement, starts typing: “The music is far too loud, this is a joke. I can’t even hear my husband across the table.” Not necessarily a bad thing she thinks to herself. 

Almost before she’s had time to put the phone down, the music level drops dramatically. Karen’s grin evolves into a smile. 

She looks up, and the young waitress is back. “Hi madam, so sorry about the music. Is there anything else we can do for you?

Karen is, for once, stunned for words. “Oh, thank you. It was just the music, everything else is lovely, thanks.” She looks over at Kenneth and gives him a smile. Suddenly he doesn’t seem quite as infuriatingly annoying. “Are you ready to order, darling?”

Her phone flashes. Text from Becky. Karen can’t wait to tell her about this amazing new QR-thing the restaurant has.

I’ll call her tonight. Just after I’ve given these guys 5 stars,” she thinks. But that can wait.

After all, it’s date night. 

 

The Real Lesson From Date Night
 

Listening to your customers is a great start, but it’s not enough. Sure, Karen was pleased that the restaurant wanted to hear from her. But what truly made her experience unforgettable wasn’t just the fact that she could voice her opinion. 

It wasn’t simply that her feedback was heard.

It was that the restaurant acted on it immediately.

That’s where the real magic happens.

You’ve no doubt heard the phrase “you reap what you sow.” Stay with me here: making it possible to listen by utilizing a QR code that provides real-time insights is like planting the seed. But planting a seed alone doesn’t make a garden bloom. It’s what you do with that information, the action, and the follow-up that ensures the seed flourishes into something actionable. Something meaningful. Something beautiful.

When you bridge the gap between listening and acting, you don’t just solve problems, you create unforgettable moments. Moments that turn frustrated customers into loyal fans, one-star reviews into glowing five-star testimonials, and yes, even Karens into ambassadors.

Because at the end of the day, listening is only the first chapter of the story. The real adventure begins when you take action. 

Are You Ready To Take Action and Turn Karen into Your Greatest Ambassador?

 

.

Stian L. Pedersen - Foodback

Stian Løkling Pedersen

Founder & CEO

Recent blog articles from Foodback

NEWSFLASH: AI Will Not Save You

NEWSFLASH: AI Will Not Save You

AI is the new electricity, says Dr. Andrew Ng.
Jeff Bezos has said that AI-powered assistants will make our decisions easier and more efficient.
And they are both so right.
But that is exactly the problem.
Which is why there is more to this story.
When everyone is adopting the same AI tools, what happens to your competitive advantage?

read more
The Life of Karen: From Keyboard Warrior To Company Evangelist

The Life of Karen: From Keyboard Warrior To Company Evangelist

No one is born a Karen. Karens are made. They start out like the rest of us. Bright-eyed, full of potential, and ready to share their ideas with the world. But somewhere along the way, Karen stopped feeling heard. Her feedback, her constructive criticism, her carefully curated list of “things
that could improve this experience?” All ignored. And what do you get when you ignore someone for long enough?

read more
The 20-Second Solution to Closing the Gap with Your Customer

The 20-Second Solution to Closing the Gap with Your Customer

“It´s not you. It´s me.”

Let’s face it: talking to your customers is easy. Listening to them? That’s where most businesses drop the ball.

Your customers are ready to talk. You just have to start the conversation, and even more importantly listen.

They´re not the problem. We are.

read more
Share This